Staff

Mary Kiley (Pasquantonio) is a 6th grade teacher in Plainville and the girl’s lacrosse head coach at Mansfield High School. She has coached club lacrosse for over 9 years, and recently started teaching private lessons. Mary currently resides in Plainville with her golden doodle puppy named Murphy and three children.

Mary attended King Philip Regional High School in Wrentham, MA. She was a 2-time Boston Globe All-Scholastic, 3-time Sun Chronicle All-Star, Under Armor All-American Honorable Mention, Female Athlete of the Year in 2008, and maintains the record for her school in season and career goals and points. At King Philip, Mary helped the team win 4 straight Hockomock League championships and 1 South Sectional Championship.

She attended Merrimack College from 2008-2012, and was a starting midfielder all 4 years. She made the Northeast-10 All-Rookie Team, was a 2-time Northeast-10 All-Conference selection, and was selected to the Division II NCAA All-Region 2nd team. She collected 152 career points and maintains the record for most free-position goals in a season and a career

Mike Vitelli brings over 20 years of women’s high school and college coaching experience to Gold Star Lacrosse! After graduating from Stonehill College in 1996, Mike started his coaching career as the head coach of Walpole High School. In 2001, he became the assistant coach at Stonehill College where he helped the team go 28-13. The 2001 team reached the NCAA semi-finals, and the 2002 team played in the NCAA national championship game.

Vitelli spent 2002-2007 coaching the girl’s lacrosse team at King Phillip High School in Wrentham. During his tenure at King Phillip the Warriors dominated opponents.  The team won five straight Hockomock League Championships including an unbeaten record of 73-0-1 during that time period. In addition to an undefeated league record the Warriors also made two South Sectional Championship appearances in 2006 and 2007, winning the Sectional Championship in 2006. Vitelli was also named the Boston Globe Division I Coach of the Year in 2007.

Mike returned to Stonehill as an assistant for the 2008-2011 seasons. In 2008, Stonehill won the NE-10 Championship, and in 2010 the Skyhawks were the NE-10 Runner Up. He was instrumental in coaching numerous league all-stars and Division II All-Americans.

Mike was part of the North Attleboro high school program from 2015-2017. In 2015 he served as an assistant coach, and helped lead the team to a 13-6 overall record, and the school’s first ever post-season berth. In 2016 he became the head coach and led the Rocketeers to a 13-7 record, including another post-season appearance and the school’s first ever post season win. In 2017, North finished 13-7, and again won the first-round tournament game against Hopkinton.

For the 2019 season, Mike was named the head coach at Bishop Feehan High School. He had a stellar first year, and led a young squad to an MIAA tournament appearance

Kourtnie Wilder, a native of Framingham MA, played varsity field hockey, ice hockey and lacrosse for the Flyers. In 2010, she helped lead the lacrosse team to a state championship title (along with fellow Gold Star coaches Tanner, Rachel and Kara). She was also named a Bay State League All-Star in field hockey and ice hockey her senior year. Kourtnie was then recruited to play lacrosse at Assumption College, where she excelled on and off the field. On the field, she posted a total of 45 starts on defense, 37 ground balls, 6 draw controls and 16 caused turnovers. In the classroom, she was a 2 x Student-Athlete Honor Roll member. She also earned the Spring 2015 Assumption College Premier Student-Athlete Award for a perfect 4.0 GPA during her senior year. Kourtnie graduated in 2015 with a degree in Biology (with a concentration in secondary education).

Kourtnie currently teaches science at King Phillip Regional High School where she is also the head coach of the varsity girls lacrosse team. For her inaugural season in 2018, she was named the Hockomocksports.com girls lacrosse coach of the year after leading the Warriors to a second-place finish in the Kelley-Rex division and to the Div. 1 East quarterfinal.